At first I was unsure of what to expect of
these tests. Once I did the first test, communication anxiety I was thinking “oh
its one of these tests”, you know the ones that ask you the same question but 3
different times and 3 different ways. While I was doing these test, my cousin
who is also a coworker was doing the test for me at the same time. We received
our results about the same time. It was crazy because pretty much everything
that I scored on my own, my cousin scored the same thing. It is didn’t surprise
me at all. She knows me and I am very comfortable and relaxed around her. So
for her to have the same results were normal to me. The second person I had
take the test is my boyfriend of a few months. It was more interesting to read
his results. Just by his results you can tell that I am still holding back some
of my “realness” from him. I think that is normal as well for a relationship
that is this new. I really learned about how much I hold back from people till
I am truly comfortable with them. I feel this is a good and bad thing, but
something I don’t look forward to changing.
Hi, Keisha! It is quite interesting how differently your relatively new boyfriend assessed you. I agree that maybe you have showed some of your 'realness' to him yet. But I also think that it can be because he is also not that familiar with your non-verbal cues and other communication styles that he does not have the same perception yet. It will come soon, I guess. Thanks for your post!
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